My guide to: Life & Work On YOUR TERMS
Leap before you are ready.
Jump before you are pushed.
START something when the idea and momentum is there.
TRUST your instincts – don’t ignore them a MINUTE longer. If you aren’t use to tuning into your instincts, your gut feelings, practice.
Don’t wait for permission – give it to yourself.
Don’t play it small for fear of what other people may say or think.
The people that matter will support you – the rest REALLY DON’T MATTER.
Be prepared to take a stand for what is YOURS. Claim it. Your goals have YOUR name on it.
You don’t have to have it all figured out before you make a start. Start and then figure things out.
Start again every day.
Work it out; you will find a way.
Trust yourself even when you haven’t got a support system.
Trust yourself even if you are the only person doing what you want to do.
Trust yourself and take action even when other people say you are crazy or it’s not possible.
Trust that it will work, and if it doesn’t go exactly to plan, you will adapt AND MOVE FORWARD ANYWAY.
Every day make your decisions based on where you want to be, not where you are.
Ditch the naysayers and run with a new crowd. Running on your own is better than sticking with the naysayers.
Elevate your mind. Read. Read. Read some more. Read for an hour a day. At least.
Study. Study role models. Study those who are where you want to be. Study those who are doing what you want to do.
Get a mentor. Get someone who believes in you. Ditch anyone who has limited thinking about what you can achieve.
Believe in yourself.
Believe you CAN do what you want, when you want, how you want.
Be confident. Be bold. Be Daring.
Replace your negative thoughts with positive thoughts.
Step out of that comfort zone every single day.
Forget whatever it is you’ve been told from society about how it is you should live your life. Forget limited advice from ‘well meaning’ (potentially sabotaging) friends and family. Their experience of life does not have to become your experience.
Find the people that get you, understand you, know what you are doing and going through. Hang out with them.
Be yourself. 100%. Every single day.
Be fine with people not getting you.
Be fine with people not liking you.
Don’t waste your energy trying to get people to like you.
Don’t become a people pleaser; in 1000 lifetimes you won’t have time for that.
Realise it’s ok to be scared. And you’ll be fine.
Realise it’s ok to have doubts. And you’ll be fine.
Realise it’s ok to get frustrated. And you will be fine.
Explore the obvious ways to get what you want and where you want to be, but also explore the less obvious ways.
Be curious. Be brave. Be determined.
Believe more is possible.
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