The key thing to remember when creating your life of freedom is to keep your focus on the things that you DO WANT, and to stop focusing on the things that you DON’T WANT.
This is such a simple concept, but we tend to want to over complicate things, perhaps searching out a ‘catch’ to the simplicity. Once we grasp the simplicity of creating freedom in our lives, and of course, take action on it our lives start to transform.
Let’s think about this in a practical, REAL sense; if you are doing things that you don’t want to do, and giving your mind and your thoughts to the things you DON’T WANT, how can you possibly be creating the life that you DO want?!
WHATEVER you give your attention to, you get more of. So why not give your full attention to the good things, the positive things, the things that support you, your goals, your dreams and ambitions?
Don’t fill your life with things that OTHER PEOPLE think you SHOULD do, or even what you think you ‘should’ do. With all the choices available to us, just choose to what you WANT to do over what you think ‘should’ do, every time. Don’t fill your life with SHOULDS!
By giving your time, attention, energy, LIFE to the things you don’t want, what’s happening about the life you DO want? Well, it’s sitting on the side-line of never-ever land as you go down a path in life that you don’t even want to be on!
You MUST make room for the FREEDOM you want by focusing PURELY and only on your goals, and by having a single-minded vision on your goals.
Sometimes we are scared to step into an aligned life because our aligned lives are BIGGER and more REAL than how we are living at the moment. Can it be possible? I’m here to tell you it IS possible, but you must BELIEVE it’s possible first of all. If you have doubts about it, then those doubts will be the truth, and life, you experience.
I refuse to do anything that doesn’t serve my mission in life. If it’s not aligned with my calling and my vision, then it ain’t coming in!
I refuse to spend parts of my life doing things that don’t serve me and raise up my life and the lives of others who I am here to help.
What good would it do you, or me, or anyone whose lives I change if I started to give my focus, time and energy to the things that don’t serve my mission? Can you even imagine how that would go?!
That would be CRAZY!
Here are some of the things I’ve done to create my life of FREEDOM and these are things you can do to.
I’ve cut out the news. That’s a life-changer right there. Please, please, please if you are still watching the news CUT IT OUT NOW. You can read more about all the benefits in this blog post. It’s coming up to 3 years since I watched, listened to, or read the news. You are filling your mind, day-in and day-out with the WORST things that happen in the world, instead of the BEST things that happen in the world. Focus on what you want to see MORE of. Keep watching the news and you’ll keep seeing MORE of the worst in the world. Then you are on a downward spiral; you have filled your brain, you’ve given it space in your mind, you’ve got upset and you haven’t even taken any action to help the people you’ve watched suffering! Focus on the POSITIVE things that are going on in the world and you’ll see MORE of the positive. Your choice. Which is it to be?
I’ve let go of people that aren’t on the same path as me and who aren’t a match for my mission; people who don’t share my views or support my mission. On YOUR road to your success in whatever form that takes, you HAVE to surround yourself with people who are on the same journey as you. You ARE the average of the people you surround yourself with. Take a look around you. Are those people going to slow you down, or raise you UP? Find your pack, find your tribe, find YOUR group of people and even become the LEADER. I’ve chosen to own my place as a leader in helping people create the lives that they want.
People talk about ‘work’ and ‘life’. I get it. I used to separate the two when I WASN’T doing the work that I am here to do. But I couldn’t separate it ENOUGH and that spilled out in the form of depression into my WHOLE LIFE.
What you must get is WORK IS LIFE. There is no separation. It is how we spend out lives. Every day we are filling our lives with what we want, or what we don’t want, and you can perhaps kid yourself that there is a ‘work you’ and a ‘you outside of work’ but you ain’t fooling anyone. How we spend our time is how we live our lives.
Every day I want you to step into the alignment, and the life that you want, as much as you can that day. And the next day you make more room for what you want, and less room for the things you don’t want.
Of course, big changes can happen immediately too! Change can happen in the split-second of your decisions. It’s all within your power to decide and then to take action. Do not underestimate how powerful you are.
You could have skipped reading all of the above because here’s what it boils down to…
YOU CAN’T CREATE A LIFE THAT YOU WANT, BY DOING THINGS THAT YOU DON’T WANT.
Are you ready to step into YOUR ALIGNED LIFE of FREEDOM, doing what you LOVE, on your terms? Completely on your terms? Then stop spending your life waiting and START LIVING! Talk to me about how I can help you and get you on your road to FREEDOM!
Believe more is possible.