Sometimes you’ve just got to draw a line and say…
NEVER, EVER, AGAIN.
It’s really important to be aware that you are only keeping what you love in your life. Be protective of your boundaries and assert your right to say…
NEVER, EVER, AGAIN.
Here are my ‘never, ever, agains’. Some of them are long past (but it’s worth remembering where I have drawn the line so I don’t slip backwards) and some of them are more recent…
Never ever, again will I allow myself to not have enough money (MORE than enough money).
I’m actually grateful for the hard times I’ve been through financially and my experience forms my work today, and I vowed to never, ever go back there again. It’s no way to live. That’s why it’s important to me to help other women make their own money and create their lives of total FREEDOM and independence.
Never, ever, again will I allow anyone to belittle me.
Believe it or not, it’s happened to me! By boyfriends, so-called friends, even relatives. Screw that!
Never, ever, again will I put back on the weight I am currently losing.
19lbs down and counting! Whoop! (I’ve just made a quick video about what’s in my fridge and eating for weight loss. You can check it out here!)
Never, ever, again will I keep friends that don’t elevate me or make me feel valued.
Been there, done that. It feels crap. I release people like this and create the space for the right people to come in.
Never, ever, again will I believe or anyone’s else limited thinking about what I can be, do or have.
There have been a few occasions when I’ve been told by others that I’m ‘not ready’, or that I shouldn’t do something. They were wrong. TIP. If you feel ready, you ARE ready.
Never, ever, again will I compromise in the name of money and do something I don’t like in exchange for it.
Of course, by now, you know how ‘No Compromise’ I am about this, but I wasn’t always. There were times when I thought I should do work just because someone offered me money. I’d ignore any sign that they client or the job was a wrong fit. There was always a lesson to be learned from it. Never again!
Never, ever, again will I work with clients who aren’t willing to do the work themselves.
I’m tightening up my client selection process and there will be some new contracts and agreements coming into play very soon. I want clients who are committed to their success and who will risk feeling uncomfortable to get the results they want. It’s not satisfactory for me to work with anyone who isn’t prepared to do the work.
Never, ever, again will I care enough about what anyone else thinks so that it stops me living my life as I please.
When you care more about what other people think of you and it stops you taking action, you have as good as made them the God of you. And not a very nice God actually. Your life is your own to do whatever you want with. The only question is, what are you going to do? Me? I’m going to do as I please!
Never, ever again will I be afraid of being judged.
Judge away! I don’t care. I used to care. A little. Now I don’t care. At all.
Never, ever again will I hold back on expressing myself.
Someone once told me that I didn’t have to express myself every minute of the day. I took what they said to heart. Maybe I was doing it wrong. Maybe I was doing ME wrong. Well, THEY were wrong! NOW, me expressing myself is my work and it changes people’s lives. Never let anyone silence YOU!
What are you going to say never, ever again to?
I’m not sure if you realise how fast change can take place. How fast YOU can change. How quickly you can take control. It can literally happen in seconds as soon as you have vowed to yourself, never, ever again….AND YOU BELIEVE IT AND YOU MEAN IT.
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